Stop wasting money on flowers that die. Give a Valentine's gift that keeps your relationship alive - scientifically designed questions that deepen your connection every day.
You and your partner each create your own account. Don't worry - it takes less than a minute, and we'll make sure you're both connected. Also you can invite your partner later to keep it a secret.
Every day, we'll send you both a thoughtful relationship question at a time that works for you. These aren't your usual "how was your day" questions - they're designed to spark meaningful conversations.
Take a moment to reflect and answer the question whenever it fits your schedule. Your partner won't see your response until they've answered too - no spoilers!
Once you've both answered, you'll get to see each other's responses. This is where the magic happens - discovering new perspectives and insights about each other.
With each question answered, you're building a deeper understanding of each other. Track your progress, revisit past conversations, and watch your connection grow stronger.
Research shows couples who spend more time talking report significantly higher relationship satisfaction and experience greater closeness.
Source: Time Spent Together in Intimate Relationships: Implications for Relationship Functioning by Jasara N. Hogan, Alexander O. Crenshaw, Katherine J. W. Baucom, and Brian R. W. BaucomScientific analysis reveals that the level, content, and accuracy of couple interactions are crucial for relationship health. Regular, meaningful conversations contribute more to relationship satisfaction than occasional deep talks.
Source: Silence is Not Golden: Review of Studies of Couple Interaction by Kaarina Määttä and Satu UusiauttiStudies confirm that romantic love can thrive in long-term relationships when couples maintain meaningful communication and emotional intimacy. It's not time that kills romance - it's lack of connection.
Source: Does a Long-Term Relationship Kill Romantic Love? A Meta-Analysis of Studies of Long-Term RelationshipsResearch demonstrates that couples who regularly share thoughts and feelings experience greater relationship satisfaction and intimacy. Self-disclosure is directly linked to relationship quality and stability.
Source: Self-Disclosure in Intimate Relationships: Associations with Individual and Relationship Characteristics Over TimeStudies show that couples who engage in daily relationship rituals, like sharing meaningful conversations, report higher relationship satisfaction and stronger emotional bonds.
Source: Rituals and Nuptials: The Emotional and Relational Consequences of Relationship RitualsBased on attachment theory research showing that identifying specific security-enhancing moments helps partners consciously create more of these experiences. Studies indicate secure attachment correlates with higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Draws from research on stress spillover effects in relationships. Studies show that awareness of external stress impact helps couples separate relationship issues from external pressures, leading to better conflict resolution.
Based on studies showing that intentional relationship rituals increase relationship satisfaction by 18% and help maintain long-term romantic love. Research indicates daily transition rituals are particularly important for relationship maintenance.
Grounded in research on the role of emotional regulation in relationship stability. Understanding partner's jealousy patterns helps develop targeted strategies for building trust and security.
Informed by studies showing that couples who maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflicts have significantly higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Based on research indicating that cognitive stimulation and shared learning experiences contribute to maintaining romantic love in long-term relationships, countering habituation effects.
Draws from studies showing that mindful attention in relationships improves emotional regulation, reduces reactive patterns, and increases relationship satisfaction through better conflict management.
Based on attachment theory research showing that identifying specific security-enhancing moments helps partners consciously create more of these experiences. Studies indicate secure attachment correlates with higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Draws from research on stress spillover effects in relationships. Studies show that awareness of external stress impact helps couples separate relationship issues from external pressures, leading to better conflict resolution.
Based on studies showing that intentional relationship rituals increase relationship satisfaction by 18% and help maintain long-term romantic love. Research indicates daily transition rituals are particularly important for relationship maintenance.
Grounded in research on the role of emotional regulation in relationship stability. Understanding partner's jealousy patterns helps develop targeted strategies for building trust and security.
Informed by studies showing that couples who maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflicts have significantly higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Based on research indicating that cognitive stimulation and shared learning experiences contribute to maintaining romantic love in long-term relationships, countering habituation effects.
Draws from studies showing that mindful attention in relationships improves emotional regulation, reduces reactive patterns, and increases relationship satisfaction through better conflict management.
Based on attachment theory research showing that identifying specific security-enhancing moments helps partners consciously create more of these experiences. Studies indicate secure attachment correlates with higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Draws from research on stress spillover effects in relationships. Studies show that awareness of external stress impact helps couples separate relationship issues from external pressures, leading to better conflict resolution.
Based on studies showing that intentional relationship rituals increase relationship satisfaction by 18% and help maintain long-term romantic love. Research indicates daily transition rituals are particularly important for relationship maintenance.
Grounded in research on the role of emotional regulation in relationship stability. Understanding partner's jealousy patterns helps develop targeted strategies for building trust and security.
Informed by studies showing that couples who maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflicts have significantly higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Based on research indicating that cognitive stimulation and shared learning experiences contribute to maintaining romantic love in long-term relationships, countering habituation effects.
Draws from studies showing that mindful attention in relationships improves emotional regulation, reduces reactive patterns, and increases relationship satisfaction through better conflict management.
Based on attachment theory research showing that identifying specific security-enhancing moments helps partners consciously create more of these experiences. Studies indicate secure attachment correlates with higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Draws from research on stress spillover effects in relationships. Studies show that awareness of external stress impact helps couples separate relationship issues from external pressures, leading to better conflict resolution.
Based on studies showing that intentional relationship rituals increase relationship satisfaction by 18% and help maintain long-term romantic love. Research indicates daily transition rituals are particularly important for relationship maintenance.
Grounded in research on the role of emotional regulation in relationship stability. Understanding partner's jealousy patterns helps develop targeted strategies for building trust and security.
Informed by studies showing that couples who maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflicts have significantly higher relationship satisfaction and longevity.
Based on research indicating that cognitive stimulation and shared learning experiences contribute to maintaining romantic love in long-term relationships, countering habituation effects.
Draws from studies showing that mindful attention in relationships improves emotional regulation, reduces reactive patterns, and increases relationship satisfaction through better conflict management.
Research shows that clear boundaries paradoxically increase emotional intimacy. Studies indicate that couples who respect personal boundaries report higher levels of trust and closeness.
Based on studies of partner support effectiveness, showing that matched support styles (emotional vs. practical) lead to better outcomes and stronger relationship bonds.
Research indicates that couples who maintain shared vision and actively plan together show higher commitment levels and better relationship outcomes over time.
Draws from psychophysiological research on stress impacts on intimacy, helping partners understand how external factors affect their connection patterns.
Based on studies showing specific types of gratitude expression significantly impact relationship satisfaction, with personalized appreciation being most effective.
Research shows that repair attempts after conflict are crucial for relationship stability, with successful repairs predicting long-term relationship success.
Studies indicate that couples who support individual growth while maintaining connection show higher relationship satisfaction and better conflict resolution.
Research shows that clear boundaries paradoxically increase emotional intimacy. Studies indicate that couples who respect personal boundaries report higher levels of trust and closeness.
Based on studies of partner support effectiveness, showing that matched support styles (emotional vs. practical) lead to better outcomes and stronger relationship bonds.
Research indicates that couples who maintain shared vision and actively plan together show higher commitment levels and better relationship outcomes over time.
Draws from psychophysiological research on stress impacts on intimacy, helping partners understand how external factors affect their connection patterns.
Based on studies showing specific types of gratitude expression significantly impact relationship satisfaction, with personalized appreciation being most effective.
Research shows that repair attempts after conflict are crucial for relationship stability, with successful repairs predicting long-term relationship success.
Studies indicate that couples who support individual growth while maintaining connection show higher relationship satisfaction and better conflict resolution.
Research shows that clear boundaries paradoxically increase emotional intimacy. Studies indicate that couples who respect personal boundaries report higher levels of trust and closeness.
Based on studies of partner support effectiveness, showing that matched support styles (emotional vs. practical) lead to better outcomes and stronger relationship bonds.
Research indicates that couples who maintain shared vision and actively plan together show higher commitment levels and better relationship outcomes over time.
Draws from psychophysiological research on stress impacts on intimacy, helping partners understand how external factors affect their connection patterns.
Based on studies showing specific types of gratitude expression significantly impact relationship satisfaction, with personalized appreciation being most effective.
Research shows that repair attempts after conflict are crucial for relationship stability, with successful repairs predicting long-term relationship success.
Studies indicate that couples who support individual growth while maintaining connection show higher relationship satisfaction and better conflict resolution.
Research shows that clear boundaries paradoxically increase emotional intimacy. Studies indicate that couples who respect personal boundaries report higher levels of trust and closeness.
Based on studies of partner support effectiveness, showing that matched support styles (emotional vs. practical) lead to better outcomes and stronger relationship bonds.
Research indicates that couples who maintain shared vision and actively plan together show higher commitment levels and better relationship outcomes over time.
Draws from psychophysiological research on stress impacts on intimacy, helping partners understand how external factors affect their connection patterns.
Based on studies showing specific types of gratitude expression significantly impact relationship satisfaction, with personalized appreciation being most effective.
Research shows that repair attempts after conflict are crucial for relationship stability, with successful repairs predicting long-term relationship success.
Studies indicate that couples who support individual growth while maintaining connection show higher relationship satisfaction and better conflict resolution.
Based on attachment and intimacy research showing that understanding different intimacy expressions helps partners meet each other's needs more effectively.
Research indicates that shared humor and laughter create neural synchrony between partners and serve as effective stress buffers in relationships.
Studies show that financial communication patterns strongly predict relationship satisfaction and stability, particularly in long-term partnerships.
Based on research about attachment behaviors during relationship stress, helping identify specific security-enhancing actions.
Research shows that successful long-term relationships maintain excitement through balanced novelty while preserving secure routines.
Based on attachment and intimacy research showing that understanding different intimacy expressions helps partners meet each other's needs more effectively.
Research indicates that shared humor and laughter create neural synchrony between partners and serve as effective stress buffers in relationships.
Studies show that financial communication patterns strongly predict relationship satisfaction and stability, particularly in long-term partnerships.
Based on research about attachment behaviors during relationship stress, helping identify specific security-enhancing actions.
Research shows that successful long-term relationships maintain excitement through balanced novelty while preserving secure routines.
Based on attachment and intimacy research showing that understanding different intimacy expressions helps partners meet each other's needs more effectively.
Research indicates that shared humor and laughter create neural synchrony between partners and serve as effective stress buffers in relationships.
Studies show that financial communication patterns strongly predict relationship satisfaction and stability, particularly in long-term partnerships.
Based on research about attachment behaviors during relationship stress, helping identify specific security-enhancing actions.
Research shows that successful long-term relationships maintain excitement through balanced novelty while preserving secure routines.
Based on attachment and intimacy research showing that understanding different intimacy expressions helps partners meet each other's needs more effectively.
Research indicates that shared humor and laughter create neural synchrony between partners and serve as effective stress buffers in relationships.
Studies show that financial communication patterns strongly predict relationship satisfaction and stability, particularly in long-term partnerships.
Based on research about attachment behaviors during relationship stress, helping identify specific security-enhancing actions.
Research shows that successful long-term relationships maintain excitement through balanced novelty while preserving secure routines.
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